SIRACH ON FRIENDSHIP

Posted by william on Feb 24th, 2009

One of the people in the Catholic Friends group in the Multiply social network posted a short item based on Sirach 6:14. I’ve liked the passage in which this verse occurs for some time for its down to earth wisdom about human friendship.
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A kind mouth multiplies friends, and gracious lips prompt friendly greetings.
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Let your acquaintances be many, but one in a thousand your confidant.
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When you gain a friend, first test him, and be not too ready to trust him
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For one sort of friend is a friend when it suits him, but he will not be with you in time of distress.
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Another is a friend who becomes an enemy, and tells of the quarrel to your shame.
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Another is a friend, a boon companion, who will not be with you when sorrow comes.
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When things go well, he is your other self, and lords it over your servants;
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But if you are brought low, he turns against you and avoids meeting you.
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Keep away from your enemies; be on your guard with your friends.
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A faithful friend is a sturdy shelter; he who finds one finds a treasure.
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A faithful friend is beyond price, no sum can balance his worth.
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A faithful friend is a life-saving remedy, such as he who fears God finds;
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For he who fears God behaves accordingly, and his friend will be like himself.

Sirach, one of the books of wisdom literature in the Bible, has been the source of some of the daily readings at Mass this week, but this particular passage was not read.